Today's edition of The Wichita Eagle contained the obituary of Kay Arvin who had lived in the Wichita area until 2001. She was well-known, admired, and respected in the community. Unfortunately, I never met Ms Arvin. Here is the obituary, as published.
I don't know who wrote Ms Arvin's obituary; but, with the exception of praying, I can certainly be enthusiastic in following their suggestion concerning honoring her memory.